I am not sure if I should leave my wife please help. Here is the story. When I met my wife she was learning to become a hair dresser. Now she is working for a company that sells hair product and also working behind the chair. With this new job she has to travel alot, and all the money comes out of pocket. In the last year she spent $10000 on travel expenses and she has plans to go more to learn cut classes and other things. The other problem is I want to have kids, she doesnt the reason why is that it will cut in to her dream of being a famous colorist teacher on stage. I can not really keep living a life where her dream is the only important thing in her life. I might just not be understanding but I am not sure what advice can you give.
My wife and I are having issues after to years of marriage?
...divorce her, she has goals for self improvement, you don't,
you just want to knock her up, and cook for you, which she has
no plans on doing any way, so, divorce her...and socialize.
...enjoy!
My wife and I are having issues after to years of marriage?
Tom Leykis says women are "dream killers." I'm not sure about that, but it seems true in your situation. You should talk to your wife and tell her your feelings, if she doesn't change, you should separate/take a break from her, get your aspirations going, then if you still want to go back with her, do so, if not, divorce her. You'll see if you are happier with or without her.
Also, the not-having-kids thing is a pretty big deal. Remember, you only get ONE chance at life, you don't want another successful person ruining it for you.
My wife and I are having issues after to years of marriage?
In a marriage both people have to put the other before themselves. you need to sit down and have a serious conversation with her and let her know how you feel. You are obviously still in love with her or else you would not want kids with her. Tell her that you love her and are very proud of her but you want to build your lives and family now. If you love her enough and she loves you, then you will be able to work it out. Love conquers all!
My wife and I are having issues after to years of marriage?
If the directions the two of you want to go in life lead to totally different ways, and both are incompatible, then there are only two choices left: change your plans, which mean you may be unhappy with your lifepath for the remainder of your life, or break up, and go chase your own dreams, together with someone who shares your dreams.
Everybody has the right to chase their dreams.
Everybody also has the right to happiness.
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My wife and I are having issues after to years of marriage?
Before you got married, did you talk about having children? Was it something you agreed on and then she decided to change the rules after you were married? Marriage is compromise. You have some serious talking to do!
My wife and I are having issues after to years of marriage?
She's not Korean is she? Sound so familiar. I finally divorced my wife of 18 years because our children reached the ages that allow for choice. If there were no children it would not have lasted two years. She did exactly the same thing to me... Thousands of dollars for her training to be a cosmotologist and massuse. Then she began sleeping with the men she was supposed to be massaging. I finally saw with my own eyes and divorced her. Watch out my friend.
My wife and I are having issues after to years of marriage?
If she's willing to change then stay.
I hate to say it but a working relationship isn't always healthy or fair but both sides should try, not just one or the other. Otherwise you'll always feel walked over and resent her for it when time passes. It'll only affect the marriage for the worse.
You need to speak with her and ask her to be honest about it, be respectful and do the same with her. If she's unwilling, you'll have to be the judge of what you're willing to put up with and what you say is enough. Just be sure that it's really enough and not something you're just giving up on if there's a chance it'll work out for the better.
Good luck.
My wife and I are having issues after to years of marriage?
ur marriage is going thru rough patch becoz of diverse goals. ur wife was already studying to become a h/dresser when u met and u married her still pursuing her dream. it appears that the issue of children never came up or u assumed that that wd naturally follow marriage. there is nothing wrong with either of ur dreams, they are just dreams that don't mesh. sit down together and reach a compromise. for example she may need the next five years to qualify. are u willing to wait that long for kids? depends on how old u are. u can spend the time saving for ur own home, or for upkeep so u become a stay-at-home dad. she amy reach a poiunt in her training where she is not travelling too much and may be ready for kids. if all u want is a family and allshe wants is a career the t thing u can do is try to force her into 'mummy' shoes. awd u be willing to give up YOUR career advancement to stay at home? talk to each other coz it is better to either chart a clear path or to part ways while there are no kids involved.
My wife and I are having issues after to years of marriage?
Hi there seems like you jumped into it before talking about it - life is about following your dreams but when you marry it has to be one dream to share. Discuss your problem with your wife remind her of the beginnings and those beginnings ment a family if that's not what she chooses why did she marry you?
I'm sure after she answers you really questions - you'll have the answer for now you have the idea. Communication makes it or breaks it but at least it clears up the air.
My wife and I are having issues after to years of marriage?
First of all. How old are the two of you? And how long have you been married? That could be a big factor on whether you should wait to have kids or not. I think you should support her in her dream. The thing with men is we can have kids until we are like dead at the age of 100 but it's harder for women to have kids at a certain age.
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